[enchantmentadm]

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it's my day to read my message.......

bet he's fake

if it's juicy, I will make a report.......gasp

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so I guess this cm guy met somebody or ????

he didn't read my message .....
and am definitely not paying for membership anyway

My CM membership is up in two months. I will then have to decide whether to pay to renew or to just let it lapse. In the latter case, I will probably still leave my profile up. I found out that I can still play the trivia game as a non-paying member. It is hard to justify paying for membership when there is rarely anyone who interests me enough to message her. It appears that the quality and quantity of CM members has declined since 2016, which is when I first joined. This could be related to the trend away from dating sites and apps cited above. As a non-paying member, I would not be eligible to participate in Catholic Match Relate but I have rarely participated anyway. I don't see much point in interacting with people who live far away and would be difficult or impossible to meet in person. I have gone back to my original position on long-distance and could not see myself doing this beyond 100 miles or so. My experiences with experimenting with pushing out my geographic boundaries were not positive. On the other hand, CM membership is not expensive and I could view it as a kind of insurance. I have had some successes in the past. I was just thinking that I had dates for Valentine's Day in 2017 and 2019 with ladies I met on CM and it could happen again. I have a lot to think and pray about.