[Debbie]

Yes, if you can call sending a message every two or three months "using." This is about as often as I find someone I have enough in common with to send a message. My subscription is up at the end of next month. I keep going back and forth but am now leaning toward renewing. As someone on CM forums once put it, it is kind of an insurance policy. But I think there is a greater chance my house will burn down than I will actually start a relationship on CM. I also have not fully taken advantage of "CM Relate but most of the people I have encountered on there live far away. I guess staying on CM would just be a way of keeping my options open.

I admire your optimism about CM.  Well, except for the part about your house burning down before getting into a relationship on CM!  ????