04-14-2025, 10:14 PM
Not on there ,and haven’t regretted leaving.While it was lovely to meet many through the forums when they were up and running ,I think the negatives outweighed the positives.
I would join full of hope ,good self esteem and bit by bit being on CM would corrode that
Recently I’ve looked into both my ‘annulments ‘, both were listed on the grounds of lack of discretion.
My local diocese marriage tribunal office that I contacted replied at the end of the day saying she would look on computer the next day ,but said there wasn’t really any need as that she knew with certainty it would be ‘lack of discretion’ as that is what she always put .Then she added ..”We were young, we made mistakes
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I wish it were years ago and there was more certainty :/
Both marriages were overseas , I don’t know if things were thoroughly investigated in Ethiopia .
Anyway, I feel a sense of peace in not searching for a significant other ,it’s nice
I would join full of hope ,good self esteem and bit by bit being on CM would corrode that

Recently I’ve looked into both my ‘annulments ‘, both were listed on the grounds of lack of discretion.
My local diocese marriage tribunal office that I contacted replied at the end of the day saying she would look on computer the next day ,but said there wasn’t really any need as that she knew with certainty it would be ‘lack of discretion’ as that is what she always put .Then she added ..”We were young, we made mistakes

I wish it were years ago and there was more certainty :/
Both marriages were overseas , I don’t know if things were thoroughly investigated in Ethiopia .
Anyway, I feel a sense of peace in not searching for a significant other ,it’s nice
