[susanb]

I am waiting six more days to read a message
[the first one of this year was removed by admin. the day I read the message]

hard to see much going on

I think the younger folks have more messages....

[James]

I am waiting six more days to read a message
[the first one of this year was removed by admin. the day I read the message]

hard to see much going on

I think the younger folks have more messages....

Yes.

[enchantmentadm]

Yes, if you can call sending a message every two or three months "using." This is about as often as I find someone I have enough in common with to send a message. My subscription is up at the end of next month. I keep going back and forth but am now leaning toward renewing. As someone on CM forums once put it, it is kind of an insurance policy. But I think there is a greater chance my house will burn down than I will actually start a relationship on CM. I also have not fully taken advantage of "CM Relate but most of the people I have encountered on there live far away. I guess staying on CM would just be a way of keeping my options open.

[Debbie]

Yes, if you can call sending a message every two or three months "using." This is about as often as I find someone I have enough in common with to send a message. My subscription is up at the end of next month. I keep going back and forth but am now leaning toward renewing. As someone on CM forums once put it, it is kind of an insurance policy. But I think there is a greater chance my house will burn down than I will actually start a relationship on CM. I also have not fully taken advantage of "CM Relate but most of the people I have encountered on there live far away. I guess staying on CM would just be a way of keeping my options open.

I admire your optimism about CM.  Well, except for the part about your house burning down before getting into a relationship on CM!  ????

[English Rose]

I keep a presence on CM. I don't pay to use it.

[susanb]

I keep a presence on CM.  I don't pay to use it.

yeah......not paying.......the forum was my only reason to be there

[MaryAlice]

I am waiting six more days to read a message
[the first one of this year was removed by admin. the day I read the message]

hard to see much going on

I think the younger folks have more messages....

Yes.

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Yes, if you can call sending a message every two or three months "using." This is about as often as I find someone I have enough in common with to send a message. My subscription is up at the end of next month. I keep going back and forth but am now leaning toward renewing. As someone on CM forums once put it, it is kind of an insurance policy. But I think there is a greater chance my house will burn down than I will actually start a relationship on CM. I also have not fully taken advantage of "CM Relate but most of the people I have encountered on there live far away. I guess staying on CM would just be a way of keeping my options open.

My subscription expires in early May, and I don't plan on renewing it.  I've had enough of the nonsense there.  The only things keeping me on CM are the Relate trivia events ... they're kind of fun to a little extent ... having SOME interaction with real, live people is better (in my view) than writing messages with people I don't really know.

[susanb]

I am waiting six more days to read a message
[the first one of this year was removed by admin. the day I read the message]

hard to see much going on

I think the younger folks have more messages....

Yes.

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Yes, if you can call sending a message every two or three months "using." This is about as often as I find someone I have enough in common with to send a message. My subscription is up at the end of next month. I keep going back and forth but am now leaning toward renewing. As someone on CM forums once put it, it is kind of an insurance policy. But I think there is a greater chance my house will burn down than I will actually start a relationship on CM. I also have not fully taken advantage of "CM Relate but most of the people I have encountered on there live far away. I guess staying on CM would just be a way of keeping my options open.

My subscription expires in early May, and I don't plan on renewing it.  I've had enough of the nonsense there.  The only things keeping me on CM are the Relate trivia events ... they're kind of fun to a little extent ... having SOME interaction with real, live people is better (in my view) than writing messages with people I don't really know.

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well you folks here are 30% of the real people I knew there......
finding online participation in rosaries etc too challenging
for my schedule right now but would enjoy that

[MariaG]

I am waiting six more days to read a message
[the first one of this year was removed by admin. the day I read the message]

hard to see much going on

I think the younger folks have more messages....

Yes, I just rejoined because of the crazy good sale they had for St. Patrick's Day.  I wanted to check in on the few people I chatted with and see if there were any new faces in my area.  It's been a bust so far, but I had low expectations going in.

[susanb]

I am waiting six more days to read a message
[the first one of this year was removed by admin. the day I read the message]

hard to see much going on

I think the younger folks have more messages....

Yes, I just rejoined because of the crazy good sale they had for St. Patrick's Day.  I wanted to check in on the few people I chatted with and see if there were any new faces in my area.  It's been a bust so far, but I had low expectations going in.

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that didn't entice me.........my latest message went poof also
........not any fun there without the forum

[William St. Guthlac]

Yes, I just rejoined because of the crazy good sale they had for St. Patrick's Day.  I wanted to check in on the few people I chatted with and see if there were any new faces in my area.  It's been a bust so far, but I had low expectations going in.

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that didn't entice me.........my latest message went poof also
........not any fun there without the forum

Of the almost daily dumb decisions over there, that was the dumbest when they zeroed out the forums. I don't believe the tech excuse either. That is a pretext.

[James]

Probsbly too many members complaining about unhinged moderation.

[English Rose]

Oh yes, the unhinged moderation and plenty of unhinged posts too.

[English Rose]

Over on Christian Connection, there's a man taking a photo of himself sitting on the toilet, while using the wall mirror to take the photo. That sort of thing makes it very, very difficult to regret giving up internet dating.

[susanb]

Over on Christian Connection, there's a man taking a photo of himself sitting on the toilet, while using the wall mirror to take the photo.  That sort of thing makes it very, very difficult to regret giving up internet dating.

yuck...........seems too awful to think of

[Jericho]

Over on Christian Connection, there's a man taking a photo of himself sitting on the toilet, while using the wall mirror to take the photo.  That sort of thing makes it very, very difficult to regret giving up internet dating.

Disgusting

[Jericho]

“Anyone using CM” 

I took a break during Lent this year (2025)

[susanb]

I get maybe three views per year and 1 or two messages which are removed by admin

[English Rose]

I get maybe three views per year and 1 or two messages which are removed by admin

Sounds as if they continue to have a problem with scammers

[susanb]

I get maybe three views per year and 1 or two messages which are removed by admin

Sounds as if they continue to have a problem with scammers

and the fact that I am not the age the men my age prefer